I don’t suppose I really have any secrets about myself. For a while our issues with conceiving were only known to family and close friends and when asked when we were planning on having children of course we responded with the usual ‘soon’ and ‘just enjoying ourselves at the moment as we are’. But it was hard. It was hard being asked those questions. It was hard seeing people around us having children of their own. It was hard hearing how they got pregnant and they weren’t really trying. You just get on with it though. Sometimes I would have a little cry to myself but then I would carry on. Carry on with the day to day and of course actually really enjoying being Aunty Gemma.